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VIRGINS AND MASTURBATION
There are several questions on masturbation most especially coming from ladies. Indeed yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins because Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex.
The aim is not to argue who masturbates most, but either to mention most prominent risks for both boys and girls in order for each one of us learn how to deal with this serious issue.
Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).
From teenage upward, a person develops strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in Marriage. In early 20s it becomes stronger and intense. Some days, you may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world, for boys, they go hot on spotting a curvy lady, start noticing shapes and curves and they have to shake there head several times to keep the image off. Some times may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something, when check up and discover you are wet, All these are normal indication of high sexual libido seen in the teen-agers.
When you get hot and horny, The closest thought cover up your mind is to give yourselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at metatheses time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out.
Effects and Risks of solo sex (Masturbation)
1. Mental fornication: Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating.
2. Uterine/Cervical Abnormalities: For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb which can lead to underlying health conditions like cervical cancer, uterine prolapse, cervical mass, urinary tract infections and infertility.
3. Loss of sexual libido: You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in Marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis instead you will think of larger and completely unrealistic.
4. Erectile dysfunction: You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in Marriage. Regular rubbing of your penile muscle will lower its sensitivity and the ability to stretch and strengthen during erection and the result is weak erection. A strong man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating but because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated.
5. Missed Ejaculation: A situation where you reach a moment of orgasm but fail to release sperms or you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. This situation can lead tp infertility and barrenness.
6. Regular wet/bad dreams: You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse). which makes you feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act. when you start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing, you fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act. Then get a warped view of the opposite sex see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers thus you become promiscuous.
You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!
How to handle the constant hunger for sex and avoid masturbation
Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies, they are powerful sexual triggers. Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex, Transmute your sexual energy, channel your sexual energy into something great.
Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it.
